Re: help needed

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From: BJ&GJC
Date: Sun, 07 May 2000 00:00

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Jacky,
 its important to save yourself first before you even attempt to assist your
friend.
Believe in yourself and you have already identified your problems have been
since you have been in a relationship with this male but because you are
close to this a man with his problems he is subtly removing your strengths!!

Do not take responsibility for his problems!! He is an adult who should have
his own support mechanisms (ie wife and son) who I believe have supported
each other over the years even though it sounds quiet a dysfunctional
family.

Jacky please get help for your depression once that is under control you
will be able to assist your friend more if you feel you can. You may have
changed your mind by then and may not want that relationship.
Whatever take care
cheers Barb

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From: "BJ&GJC" <cookie4@primus.com.au>
Subject: Re: help needed
Date: 2000/05/07
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