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>
> One of them sat down and was blowing (not drugs, just literally blowing)
and
> tsk-ing all the time. She looks at me several times. First I interpreted
it
> as a signal as: I had to run very fast to catch this train, I am very glad
> that I can sit down and rest.
 This gets boring so in the beginning I frequently look at them, but when
> time passes I stop looking at them. After 15 minutes I got out, and so are
> these 2 women. The train is not going further but will go in the opposite
> direction.
>
> It looks like a vicious circle. The woman in front of me is looking angry,
> blowing tsk-ing, and I look at her because of her behaviour.

Why did you do that?  Perhaps she has Tourette's and couldn't help her
behavior.
She probably thought you were rude.

Maybe she is
> angry, because I look at her,

I think so.

 because she is angry, because I look at her,
> because she is angry, because I look at her, because she is angry...

don't look at angry people.
>
> > react. Why do some women talk that loud, that I can hear every word,

um, this has nothing to do with their sex;  some PEOPLE talk loudly.  I'm
sure they didn't
care that you could overhear their comments.

"Yes, but eating Magnums will make me fat." She said smiling: "If you left
> out the pudding or the yoghurt (In the Netherlands we often eat yoghurt),
> you can eat a Magnum, and you won't get fat." Of course, she is worrying
> about the number of purchases and buyings in her store! A cute and a
> humorous marketing technique.

Indeed!
>
> Women are really cute, but it is the shyness that does spoil everything.

Think of them as people rather than women.  Try to speak to them and behave
around them
as you would around any adult of any age or sex.  It might help.

> Apparently my autism isn't the problem here. It isn't difficult to make a
> lot of fun with women. It is a pity, that I had such a hate against them.

Are you saying you hate women?  Or used to hate women?  They're just people,
they come in all types, both hateful and not hateful.  Your mom was one! :-)

 I
> am not totally convinced.

of what?
>
>
> --
> Hans Kamp (Win2000)
> info@hanskamp.com
> www.hanskamp.com
>

Hans Kamp wrote:

<stuff>

I love your title line on this.  :)  That's all I have to say.

EM

"Jared Blackburn" <enlil@utk.edu> schreef in bericht
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> If you ask me, human beings in general are wierd.

Some are weirder than others. Don't think at "The Animal Farm" (written bij
George Orwell) immediately, in which he wrote: "All animals are equal, but
some are more equal than others"... :-)


--
Hans Kamp (Win2000)
info@hanskamp.com
www.hanskamp.com

If you ask me, human beings in general are wierd.

Jared.
-- 
"Rain and river, a world of Wonder,
 May be paradise to me." -- Enya, "China Roses"

YOU 	are quit right, o no nut me I am just the same as anyone. 
I only play this game for fun!!!!















supertramp
On Sun, 03 Sep 2000 07:07:04 GMT, "Hans Kamp" <hmkamp@home.nl> wrote:

>
>"Jared Blackburn" <enlil@utk.edu> schreef in bericht
>news:39B21218.C5C14B0F@utk.edu...
>> If you ask me, human beings in general are wierd.
>
>Some are weirder than others. Don't think at "The Animal Farm" (written bij
>George Orwell) immediately, in which he wrote: "All animals are equal, but
>some are more equal than others"... :-)
>
>
>--
>Hans Kamp (Win2000)
>info@hanskamp.com
>www.hanskamp.com
>

In alt.support.shyness Hans Kamp <hmkamp@home.nl> wrote:
: One of them sat down and was blowing (not drugs, just literally blowing) and
: tsk-ing all the time. She looks at me several times. First I interpreted it
: as a signal as: I had to run very fast to catch this train, I am very glad
: that I can sit down and rest. Possibly she wants to make me react or start a
: conversation with her. I don't like to seduce women and I don't like to be
: seduced by them in trains. The other woman was also looking at me 3 or 4
: times, and she looks satisfied when I look back.

This is somewhat unrelated, 
I know this might all just be a translation problem,  but your use 
of the word "seduce" has always puzzled me.  You seem to use it 
to mean "flirt".  In American English "flirt" and "seduce" are 
very different words.  People flirt on trains.  Smiling, eye contact, 
talking, are all part of flirting.  Flirting is generally a very positive, 
carefree activity.  Seduction is something else altogether.  Seduction 
has connotations that imply that you are leading someone astray, convincing 
them to do something they would not do in a normal frame of mind.  
When talking about men and women, seduction implies sex.  

I doubt that the women on the trains are really trying to seduce you.  
Flirt with you perhaps, but not seduce you.  Using the word "seduce"
makes the women seem threatening, when in reality there are probably
quite harmless.
 
Stephen

<stephen@nomail.msu.edu> schreef in bericht
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> In alt.support.shyness Hans Kamp <hmkamp@home.nl> wrote:
> : One of them sat down and was blowing (not drugs, just literally blowing)
and
> : tsk-ing all the time. She looks at me several times. First I interpreted
it
> : as a signal as: I had to run very fast to catch this train, I am very
glad
> : that I can sit down and rest. Possibly she wants to make me react or
start a
> : conversation with her. I don't like to seduce women and I don't like to
be
> : seduced by them in trains. The other woman was also looking at me 3 or 4
> : times, and she looks satisfied when I look back.
>
> This is somewhat unrelated,
> I know this might all just be a translation problem,  but your use
> of the word "seduce" has always puzzled me.  You seem to use it
> to mean "flirt".  In American English "flirt" and "seduce" are
> very different words.  People flirt on trains.  Smiling, eye contact,
> talking, are all part of flirting.  Flirting is generally a very positive,
> carefree activity.  Seduction is something else altogether.  Seduction
> has connotations that imply that you are leading someone astray,
convincing
> them to do something they would not do in a normal frame of mind.
> When talking about men and women, seduction implies sex.
>
> I doubt that the women on the trains are really trying to seduce you.
> Flirt with you perhaps, but not seduce you.  Using the word "seduce"
> makes the women seem threatening, when in reality there are probably
> quite harmless.

That is true. Then it depends on my mood whether I want to have a
conversation with a woman.


--
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info@hanskamp.com
www.hanskamp.com