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(snipped to include what Bruce@lee.house.gov posted to my comments)

In <4nqoll$cpm@neon.house.gov> B David < bruce@lee.house.gov,
bbows@hr.house.gov> writes: 
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>betzl@ix.netcom.com(Jennifer R Lind ) wrote:
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>>This is so true.  I do like a man who owns a home or even rents his
own
>>apt.  This is because I take care of myself and I like to know a man
>>can take care of himself. 
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>This may sound very insightful. Do you know that sometimes 
>very bad things must be done in order to own a home or rent 
>an apt ???  As a result, you must not be suprised if you find 
>yourself in a bad relationship with a man who owns a home or 
>rents and apt. 

I will admit however that the last guy I dated did own a home and he
was the most irresponsible guy I ever met.  He didn't take care of his
house, his yard or pay any of his bills on time.

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>>I've been involved with men who hadn't left home yet and I won't get
>>involved with them because they don't know how to be responsible.  
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>You base his responsibility upon his living at home (and saving,
>what, $400 - $900 dollars a month) ???

As I just said above, owning a house doesn't mean someone is
responsible, so yes I am changing my view here.  There is more to
responsibilty than saving money though.  The proble with the men I went
out with is that since they never lived on there own they didn't know
how to take care of themselves.  Mother did laundry, bought food,
cooked, etc.  When I get married I'm not going to work full time and
take care of the house.  I already played that game with one guy I
lived with and I'm not doing it again.   
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>>Jen