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Article #234Re: 70% Said, Given A Second Chance, They Wouldn't Have Had Kids
From: takworld
Date: Sat, 18 May 1996 00:00
Date: Sat, 18 May 1996 00:00
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Debra Ann Simms wrote: > > Stephanie (nhdcs1@ix.netcom.com) wrote: > : Parenting is the most important and difficult job in the world, period, > : exclamation point. Why then are there no required classes for this? > : I want an instruction book on life! Does any one know where I can > : find one? > > Good luck! If you do, please let me know too. Being a parent is like > nothing else in the whole world. It's so many emotions and experiences > all at once, every single day. But I wouldn't trade my babies in for > anything. Every time they hug me, thank me, ask me a question, smile, > bring me a bouquet of dandelions, are sick, are troubled, you name it, I > know that I try my damndest to help them in anyway I can. They're my life! > > Debbie I'm rather glad there isn't a book on parenting because you know it'd be used against all of us. If you didn't follow chapter 5, it'd mean were abusing your child or neglectful or something and they'd take your kid away. If you didn't follow chapter 14 to the letter, some political cretin would be pointing his finger at you as a fine example of corruption in the family. Not everyone should be raised the same, as humans who are suppose to be have a big brain (not always functional but they never mention that), we should be able to figure it out (dance on the edge often). And what works for one might not work for another. I was a difficult child because I couldn't be what my parents thought I should be, and I was far different from my submission siblings. I'd hate to have had "the book" [on parenting] thrown at me as an excuse for some serious mind control or alteration or something.
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 1082f5,5c898871827d3f87 X-Google-Attributes: gid1082f5,public X-Google-Thread: fdc4a,5c898871827d3f87 X-Google-Attributes: gidfdc4a,public X-Google-Thread: 106b5d,5c898871827d3f87 X-Google-Attributes: gid106b5d,public X-Google-Thread: fbd31,5c898871827d3f87 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbd31,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,5c898871827d3f87 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: 10a1d2,5c898871827d3f87 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a1d2,public From: takworld <takworld@sirius.com> Subject: Re: 70% Said, Given A Second Chance, They Wouldn't Have Had Kids Date: 1996/05/18 Message-ID: <319E27D5.3381@sirius.com> X-Deja-AN: 155493300 references: <DqCMDn.HwD@world.std.com> <4llqsd$1km8@saba.info.ucla.edu> <4lvni2$tv@verdi.nethelp.no> <twdayDqMHns.EJw@netcom.com> <3188BB1B.4060@earthlink.net> <4mlfe1$qu6@dfw-ixnews1.ix.netcom.com> <4ng0i2$qkh@newstand.syr.edu> content-type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii organization: Sirius Connections mime-version: 1.0 newsgroups: ne.singles,soc.women,soc.men,ba.singles,soc.couples,rec.org.mensa x-mailer: Mozilla 2.01 (Win95; U)