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Article #387Re: The Dreaded Third Date Rule
From: Terry Rasmussen
Date: Thu, 02 May 1996 00:00
Date: Thu, 02 May 1996 00:00
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-=Weezel=- wrote:
>
> (I've removed alt.personals because this is NOT a personals ad.)
>
> On Thu, 2 May 1996, John Cooley wrote:
>
> > -=Weezel=- <louise@mv.mv.com> wrote:
<edit of a modern description of what was once known as a "gold digger">
> > Weezel, plenty of us guys know how much money can be an aphrodisiac; in
> > fact we're quite thankful for it. That is, not all of us can look like
> > Sean Connery or Tom Sellick. It's sort of the oldest known basis of
> > male/female human relationships.... I really don't think this really
> > is the preferred mode of living & loving; but for a certain segment of
> > the male population they're quite grateful this mode exists.
> >
> > - John
>
> Ah yes, John... if there was one part of my posting you'd respond to it
> would be this part.
>
<edit>
>
> YOU took it and said, "yeah, some women are after money, and those of us
> with truely ugly mugs appreciate this fact as it's the only way we can
> get laid."
>
> (I believe that's a fairly direct translation of what you said...)
Louise, I think I can not quite agree with your "translation" of the
gentlemen's statment. I would like to draw your attention, in particular
to the where he states, "...I really don't think this really is the
preferred mode of living & loving; but for a certain segement of the
male population..." I believe that John is stating that he understands
the motivations of those discussed and that he is not necessarily a
member of that segement of the population of which he speaks. A fine
point, but I think it is an important one here. Unfortunately, I think
that there are folk (some fairly high profile ones at that...) who
appear to "live and love" that way.
Personally, the "life style" described above is not for me. I'm not
particularly attractive (corpulent and balding to mention only two)
nor am I all that financially well off, I make a comfortable living.
I can not honestly say how I would live my life if I were more the
ideal of handsome or was financially well off.
>
> My point... maybe it's the only way you can get laid on the first date by
> barbie dolls who want big bucks. But you're missing the point. ....
>
<Edit of text I have no problem with>
>
>...She might not have the barbie looks, though. She might not be 28. Or, she
> might not want to be wanted simply for her looks, and would say no to sex
> on the first date. So you'd write her off, from what I can tell of what
> you've written here.
>
> And so you (and others like you) will continue to buy barbies and gripe
> when they turn out to be vampiristic.
>
I happen to agree with the above, just not the use of the personal
pronouns, for the reasons stated above.
>
> Oh well. I'll go find me a real *human* type guy to talk to. Maybe even
> tonight. *grin*
I wish you the best in your quest!
>
> --L
--
-terry rasmussen (email: trr@ontos.com)
<standard disclaimers apply>
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