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John Cooley <jcooley@world.std.com> wrote:
>I think that *some* women genuinely have these urges while
>*some* other women genuiely don't (or they lose them over time.)  I can't
>tell you the number of women I've seen in their 40's who publically espoused
>how happy they are to be celebate.  (These were/are friends; not women I was
>making a pass at.)  In the "Dear Ann Landers" column I've read
>multiple times about older women not wanting to have sex but just wanting
>to cuddle with their mates.  (Many espoused giving up sex altogether.)

Before I get flames galore for saying what I said, let me refer you to today's
Ann Lander's column where some poor guy has been married to a woman who
told him to go elsewhere for sex and hasn't gone to bed with him for 9 years.
The guy was bummed because he's the monogamous type and felt he wasn't good
enough looking to have a wife approved affair.

Two weeks ago on Saturday there was an Ann Landers column where a wife wrote
that hubby was caring, supportive, great in every way *except* he got grumpy
if they didn't have sex at least 3 times a week (which wifey thought was a
chore.)

In both situations, from the male perspective, this was/is a nightmare!  I
mean with all the media's hustling of wife/child abuse, horrible divorces
and such; even when the guy's good there's still a good chance he can
still lose.  I find the prospect of many people's elusive search for 
personal happiness very depressing.  There's just too much working against
anyone achieving or keeping it.

  - John

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