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bogbody@aol.com (Bogbody) wrote:
>I> Of course, this completely grates against the
>let's-spend-months-getting-
>|> to-know-each-other-before-even-kissing style many women would like to
>|> follow if they got their druthers in the dating world.
>|> 
>|> What results most of the time is something in between these two
>approaches.
>|> 
>|>   - John
>
>John, I know you said "many" women, not "all" or even "most," but I'm
>going to disagree with you anyway. Women have sex urges. We really do. We
>want to get laid. We want to have hot, nasty sex. We just want to like the
>guy we're doing it with (usually!;-) ) I certainly wouldn't wait months!
>In fact, if a guy didn't try at a fairly early date, the woman would
>probably get a little concerned! Hell, she probably wouldn't notice
>because she would have jumped *his* bones on the third or fourth date!
>I've heard of this "third date rule" myself. I've never been burnt on it,
>myself, because I usually know by the second or third date if I want to
>try sex. Hell, maybe *I* want to know if he's "worth it!" (Sponge-worthy?
>;-) )
>-katy

This is refreshing. Sometimes it seems like the dynamic is always "men pursue, women 
resist". Thanks for the reminder that we are all individuals and all have our own 
ways of dealing with the singles scene and life in general. 

-jlk-