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-=Weezel=-  <louise@mv.mv.com> wrote:
>It *is* confusing. I met the guy I was with for 12 years at my first job
>out of college. It's been 2 1/2 years since we split up and it is VERY
>startling to me to meet guys who want to have sex "to get to know you
>better". How about getting to know me FIRST!!! I'm not a prude, but the
>"Hi let's go to your place"  approach is a little fast. 
>--L

Over the years the majority of my male peers I've heard mention anything
about sex & dating usually say that they'll give a woman anywhere from 3 to
7 dates before either going to bed with her or moving on.  That is, they
try to get to know the woman first.  After that they want to know whether
she's worth any further investment of time & energy (i.e. is she great
or lousy in bed?)

Of course, this completely grates against the let's-spend-months-getting-
to-know-each-other-before-even-kissing style many women would like to
follow if they got their druthers in the dating world.

What results most of the time is something in between these two approaches.

  - John

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