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Article #64Re: One of the Girls?
From: darrellb
Date: Tue, 20 Aug 1996 00:00
Date: Tue, 20 Aug 1996 00:00
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In Article<4v5t63$gs@samba.rahul.net>, <artemis@rahul.net> write:
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> From: Michelle Dick <artemis@rahul.net>
> Newsgroups:
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> Subject: Re: One of the Girls?
> Date: 18 Aug 1996 01:55:15 GMT
> Organization: a2i network
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> References: <Dw5H8F.Iu1@gasco.com> <3215ccf0.45309225@nntp3.mindspring.com>
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> In article <32165955.3980@tut.mv.com>,
> Bill Tuttle <spiritrider@tut.mv.com> wrote:
> >
> >You analogy is TOTALLY invalid. Calling a black man a "boy" is an
> >intentional act to try and demean the man.
>
> Depends on the intentions of the speakers. Many who used to use that
> term "boy" claimed they meant no disrespect at all. Many certainly
> did.
>
> >I have no intention of changing my basic personality
> >becuase these women and you take offense so easily.
> >
> >Lighten up hon, get a life!!!
>
> Fascinating. Seems to me that it isn't I who is taking offense and
> getting defensive here.
>
> There is at least a small bit of truth to the maxim that the meaning
> of one's communication is the response you get. Personally, I attempt
> to choose my words to communicate effectively. If my choice results
> in an unwanted response, I try something else. I rarely find it
> fruitful to insist that others interpret my words in the manner I
> would like, but whatever works for you.
>
> --
> Michelle Dick artemis@rahul.net East Palo Alto, CA
>whats up girl am I demeaning you get a freakin life!!!!!!
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10ea9d,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gid10ea9d,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: f9306,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gidf9306,public X-Google-Thread: 10a7d3,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a7d3,public X-Google-Thread: 103432,9c6c64c095889738 X-Google-Attributes: gid103432,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public X-Google-Thread: 10a1d2,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a1d2,public X-Google-Thread: f8672,37864aad51fd2232 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8672,public From: darrellb@avana.net Subject: Re: One of the Girls? Date: 1996/08/20 Message-ID: <NEWTNews.840528362.29733.darrellb@avana.net> X-Deja-AN: 175699909 references: <Dw5H8F.Iu1@gasco.com> <3215ccf0.45309225@nntp3.mindspring.com> <4v5b80$pkn@samba.rahul.net> <32165955.3980@tut.mv.com> <4v5t63$gs@samba.rahul.net> content-type: TEXT/PLAIN; charset=US-ASCII organization: Avana Communications c/o Innoventures, Inc. (Electric Pages) mime-version: 1.0 newsgroups: pdx.singles,ott.singles,nyc.singles,nv.singles,ne.singles,houston.singles,dfw.singles,ba.singles,atl.singles