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Article #159Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?)
From: Ron Tisdale
Date: Sat, 04 Nov 1995 00:00
Date: Sat, 04 Nov 1995 00:00
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In article <4735pm$j3e@gazette.tandem.com>, reif_andrea@tandem.com says... > >kinokaw@netaxs.com (Ron Tisdale) wrote: >You're right. I guess I don't mean that I'd put absolute limits for >all time, just be a little careful about it, slower to trust. And I >never place "in my circle" type of limits on anything although it does >lower risk since men in my circle have mutual friends to answer to. > Boy, I do get that!! People often act quite differently when they have multiple conections to a person, environment, etc. >I guess you don't know >what it's like to have someone pretend to be your friend when you're >going through an emotionally vulnerable time in your life just for >ulterior motives. Maybe it's also my own fear of having to say no to >people I'm close to but it's just easier to be on guard with men and >confide in and depend on my female friends more. > Unfortunately, I think most of us know what that is like. Whether we admit it or not. And as to fear, while unpleasant, I like to think of it as something to get close to when its there. Its one of natures best teachers. The challenge is not in not being afraid; the challenge is in overcomming the fear, especially when something lucious might be on the other side :) -- Ron Tisdale kinokawa@netaxs.com http://www.netaxs.com/people/kinokawa/
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10c68b,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10c68b,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public X-Google-Thread: fbf61,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbf61,public X-Google-Thread: f4f15,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4f15,public X-Google-Thread: fb8b9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfb8b9,public X-Google-Thread: f8a21,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8a21,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: f4eb9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4eb9,public From: kinokaw@netaxs.com (Ron Tisdale) Subject: Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?) Date: 1995/11/04 Message-ID: <47ehu7$e8e@netaxs.com> X-Deja-AN: 118611947 references: <44k4to$ft8@nnrp1.news.primenet.com> <44mqdk$1and@fidoii.cc.lehigh.edu> <44n0m7$j36@usenet.srv.cis.pitt.edu> <44q5dg$fua@dobie.loop.com> <44uscd$jt3@ixnews2.ix.netcom.com> <457bvn$2in@ixnews6.ix.netcom.com> <45bj6r$iun@news2.cts.com> <45inb0$n4l@ixnews7.ix.netcom.com> <45k78o$92s@news2.cts.com> <45tl3i$792@news.iadfw.net> <46k1fq$pbs@ixnews2.ix.netcom.com> <46lrtb$2v4@gazette.tandem.com> <46ml33$htk@news2.cts.com> <dickersoDH3HMD.H1@netcom.com> <46r522$aj8@gazette.tandem.com> <470ehh$k3b@netaxs.com> <4735pm$j3e@gazette.tandem.com> content-type: Text/Plain; charset=US-ASCII organization: Net Access - Philly's Original Internet Provider mime-version: 1.0 reply-to: kinokawa@netaxs.com newsgroups: phl.singles,phl.misc,atl.singles,ba.personals,ba.singles,dfw.personals,dfw.singles,houston.personals,houston.singles,ne.singles,nv.singles,nyc.singles,pgh.singles,sacramento.singles,sdnet.singles,soc.singles,vegas.singles