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Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?)

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From: CHARLIE BARTA
Date: Fri, 03 Nov 1995 00:00
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>Not to mention the fact about how much it hurts to become friends
>with someone and have them reject you because you won't go further
>with it.  For this reason I keep my friendships with straight men
>who aren't going out with a friend of mine or friends of a boyfriend
>at a certain level.  Cafe friends I'd call it.  Someone whose company
>and intellect I enjoy in public places and maybe once in a while go
>somewhere casual like a bike ride.  But I'm always on guard and never
>let them become a confidante or get too close.  I don't want to deal
>with the guilt trips or feeling abandoned by a friend.  
>
>Aqua

Your kidding right? Isn't it better to love and be left, than never
have loved at all?
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From: orlando4@ix.netcom.com (CHARLIE BARTA )
Subject: Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?)
Date: 1995/11/03
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