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Article #230Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?)
From: Aqua
Date: Mon, 30 Oct 1995 00:00
Date: Mon, 30 Oct 1995 00:00
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kinokaw@netaxs.com (Ron Tisdale) wrote: > I'll keep that in mind should we ever meet. Remember, nothing ventured nothing > gained. I find it strange that so many people put limits on how close they > will get with others, especially limits like "they must be part of my circle". > But then maybe I am reading too much into your statement. > Personally, I find that risk is a part of every relationship, and while violent > risk should be forsaken for one's own health, no risk isn't always very > healthy either. What's that word? Stagnant? > -- > Ron Tisdale > kinokawa@netaxs.com > http://www.netaxs.com/people/kinokawa/ You're right. I guess I don't mean that I'd put absolute limits for all time, just be a little careful about it, slower to trust. And I never place "in my circle" type of limits on anything although it does lower risk since men in my circle have mutual friends to answer to. I guess you don't know what it's like to have someone pretend to be your friend when you're going through an emotionally vulnerable time in your life just for ulterior motives. Maybe it's also my own fear of having to say no to people I'm close to but it's just easier to be on guard with men and confide in and depend on my female friends more. Aqua
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 10c68b,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10c68b,public X-Google-Thread: f4eb9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4eb9,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public X-Google-Thread: fbf61,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfbf61,public X-Google-Thread: f8a21,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf8a21,public X-Google-Thread: 10a5b2,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gid10a5b2,public X-Google-Thread: f4f15,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidf4f15,public X-Google-Thread: fb8b9,c103c553961e37a8 X-Google-Attributes: gidfb8b9,public From: Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com> Subject: Re: Friends and Lovers(was ..HEADGAMES?) Date: 1995/10/30 Message-ID: <4735pm$j3e@gazette.tandem.com> X-Deja-AN: 118365614 references: <44k4to$ft8@nnrp1.news.primenet.com> <44mqdk$1and@fidoii.cc.lehigh.edu> <44n0m7$j36@usenet.srv.cis.pitt.edu> <44q5dg$fua@dobie.loop.com> <44uscd$jt3@ixnews2.ix.netcom.com> <457bvn$2in@ixnews6.ix.netcom.com> <45bj6r$iun@news2.cts.com> <45inb0$n4l@ixnews7.ix.netcom.com> <45k78o$92s@news2.cts.com> <45tl3i$792@news.iadfw.net> <46k1fq$pbs@ixnews2.ix.netcom.com> <46lrtb$2v4@gazette.tandem.com> <46ml33$htk@news2.cts.com> <dickersoDH3HMD.H1@netcom.com> <46r522$aj8@gazette.tandem.com> <470ehh$k3b@netaxs.com> organization: Tandem Computers Inc., Cupertino, CA newsgroups: phl.singles,phl.misc,atl.singles,ba.personals,ba.singles,dfw.personals,dfw.singles,houston.personals,houston.singles,ne.singles,nv.singles,nyc.singles,pgh.singles,sacramento.singles,sdnet.singles,soc.singles,vegas.singles