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Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES???

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From: Aqua
Date: Thu, 26 Oct 1995 00:00
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dickerso@netcom.com (Mike Dickerson) wrote:

> "Hi, I'm a serial killer, and I'm considering you as my next
> victim.  Would you like to join me for a cup of coffee?"

It would probably work because it's so novel and noone would possibly
believe it.

> I do not think it is understandable to tell outright
> lies to your partner, especially during the early stages 
> of a relationship.  Maybe this comes from some sort of
> naive hope that I am not being told outright lies, but 
> it is the way I feel. 

I agree wholeheartedly but there are definitely subjects that
I avoid talking about.

> If you have insecurities, or feel inadequate, see a therapist,
> or talk about it with friends, or start a newsgroup 
> alt.support.relationship.insecurities (has that already
> been done?), or whatever. 
 
Doesn't everyone have SOME insecurities especially where relationships
are concerned?  One of those subjects to definitely be glossed over
in the early stages of a relationship.  But then again admitting to
insecurities and fears may actually put the other person at ease and
actually bring two people closer together.  Just a thought.  After all
admitting to being insecure or not knowing all the answers can't make
you any more insecure. 

> Mike

Aqua
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From: Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com>
Subject: Re: DOES EVERY WOMAN PLAY HEAD GAMES???
Date: 1995/10/26
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