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Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com> wrote:

>Aqua <reif_andrea@tandem.com> wrote:

>> Can someone please define what is a head game.  Yeah, this is something
>> we all know but who can actually define what it is?
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I feel that a head game is when someone asks for something, just to
see if the other person will do it.  Like asking to be taken somewhere
that you really don't want to go, just to see if you will be taken
there.  Asking for an expensive watch, that you really don't like,
just to see if the other person cares enough about you to buy it, or
getting very angry at a mis-understanding.  

It is not caring about your partner/friend/lover and only thinking
about how to test them.  It is not wanting to improve the
relationship, and wanting only to see what you can get!

However if your partner knows that, then there is a double headgame
going and that is OK.  Such as when a man is with a prostitute.  She
is building up his ego, for more money, what she can get.  He knows
this, but likes it anyway.

SNIPS

>>mere friendliness among another.  For example men in many countries
>hug their friends, so a man from one of those countries may hug his
>American gay male friend who will then say the foreign man is playing
>head games because he isn't interested in a sexual relationship.

A mis-understanding, and the gay person might feel that there is a
headtrip going on, it is because the two cultures don't understand
each other, not a deliberate headtrip!


Dave Jones

God made some people large and God made
some people small, but Samual Colt made
all people equal!