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In <61ukb6$hro@nnrp3.farm.idt.net> "John Dyson" <jrdyson@pipeline.com>
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>Carol Ann Hemingway wrote in message
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>>In <343CFB58.4FEE557A@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> Alan Davis
>><adavis@seas.gwu.edu.NOSPAM> writes:
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>>          If a marriage fails, it fails, whether or not it is legally
>>            disolved.  Before divorce, men who didn't want to stay,
>>            left, and women who didn't want to stay (who had other
>>            options) left.  All divorce did was find a way to make
>>            the leaving more equitible to both parties.  To pretend
>>            that getting rid of divorce will solve marital problems
>>            is only sticking your head in the sand.
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>However, divorce is 'too easy.'  If it were much more expensive, then
maybe>more people would work out the problems, instead of giving up
over the first>tear that falls.
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>--John

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            Knowing, first hand, the pain divorce can bring, I would
            have a hard time accepting that most people bail at the
            first sign of stress.  Making it expensive will only
            subject folks to not get on with life, and endure more
            problems than getting it done.  Premarital counseling
            is probably most important.  Also, I think we have to
            recognize that some folks are simply not cut out for
            marriage.
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>>                Lefty
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