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TarlaStar wrote in message <6mp4m7$ds4@enews1.newsguy.com>...
>Mr. Gauldin,  I know you probably have no way of understanding how
>offensive a postition like this is to someone outside of your
mindset,
>but try to step outside of yourself for just a minute. You know how
>competent and able you feel you are? You know how strong and sure you
>are that you are the proper person to head your family, to make the
>decisions if you can't come to agreement? Well, I am just as sure as
>you are. And my husband is just as sure as you and I are. Now what?
Do
>I back down just because I was born with a vagina? Do I assume that
he
>should lead because someone back in the bowels of time decided that
>men were bigger, therefore they should be in charge? Give me one good
>reason (outside of some biblical mumbo-jumbo) why I should not
>consider my opinions and abilities to make decisions, are not every
>bit as good as my husband's. Give me a reason why I should not head
my
>family. Actually, I'd like a good reason why there has to be a leader
>in a partnership.
>

Women are regulated by hormones, which do more than merely guide the
reproductive process.  The hormones have side effects, such as
moodiness (such as PMS), defensiveness and emotionalism, all of which
tend to cloud the thought process.  While the emotionalism and
moodiness probably have positive side effects when bonding with
babies, raising children and maintaining the household, they have just
the opposite effect when they crop up in the business world or in any
other situation where a logical decision must be made.  This is
precisely the reason God intended for man to lead the family and for
the wife to show graceful obedience to his leadership.  It is also a
good reason why women do not do as well in a business setting of
leadership.  They call it a glass ceiling, but in reality, they build
it themselves.

Tom Gauldin, Raleigh NC
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