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Article #3813Re: Children To Be Scapegoated?
From: Jamesg
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1998 00:00
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1998 00:00
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I agree with that. The shunning disney thing is a bit weird. Jimmy Shaskivich <shaskivich@hotmail.com> wrote in article <01bdb64a$c0469c10$165033a1@nt3103>... > I missed the initial message which prompted these replies, but IMHO, the > SBC has been issuing some real "weird" statements lately. Shunning Disney, > banning Miramax films, etc..........seems so trivial and farcical to begin > with<> > > Jamesg@msn.com wrote in article <01bdb5bb$157b5d00$d25333a1@nt3128>... > > I am not a Baptist. I am a Catholic. This guys criticism of the Baptist > > statement is completely off target. Not only do I think he doesn't > > understand the teaching of the Baptist church on this subject, but he > > doesn't understand the Christian concept of marriage. Speaking of power, > > who gets their way, etc. all implies a pride and willfulness that would > be > > completely alien to a truly loving, Christian marriage. I congratulate > my > > Baptist brethren for their courageous teaching. It is certainly counter > > cultural in the present social climate, as are most of Christ's > teachings. > > > > easttom@redriverok.com wrote in article > > <6oj3rk$rjh$1@nnrp1.dejanews.com>... > > > Sir, all of your complaints have nothing to do with SBC doctrine or > > > statements. There is no statement or doctrine advocating any > > mistreatment of > > > any member of any family. > > > > > > In article <35ABE2AB.7B97@flash.net>, > > > chmills@flash.net wrote: > > > > C.S. Mills writes: > > > > --I submit you simply have not paid attention to exactly what I > wrote. > > > > Please go back and read my post again. > > > > --Children IN ALREADY DYSFUNCTIONAL BAPTIST FAMILIES are in a > position > > > > to be scapegoated now more than ever by those particular Baptist > > > > families. Did you take my first statement to mean that ALL Southern > > > > Baptist families are dysfunctional? Would you agree that SOME > Southern > > > > Baptist families are dysfunctional? Would you agree that SOME > Southern > > > > Baptist children who reside in dysfuncitonal families might be > > > > scapegoated in those families who focus on only part of the addition > to > > > > the Baptist Faith And Message. > > > > --The complexities of this specific type of family needs to be > taken > > > > into account by the well-meaning Southern Baptists who devised the > > > > newest point in the BF&M. > > > > --Additionally, Southern Baptists need to recognize that many > children > > > > ARE utilized daily by one parent as a sounding board on gripes > > > > against the other parent during those numerous > > > > less-than-perfectly-Christian family moments, and that they > frequently > > > > are scapegoated by parents - even good Southern Baptist parents. > > > > Chronically using a child that way is hurtful to the child. And THAT > > was > > > > my chief point of concern in my post. > > > > --I am sorry that you feel my criticism of the Baptist Faith And > > Message > > > > means that I hate all Baptists and that I hate all Christians. > > > > > > > > C.S. Mills > > > > chmills@flash.net > > > > ________________ > > > > easttom@redriverok.com wrote: > > > > > > > > > > I suggest that you have simply not paid attention to the actual SBC > > > statement. > > > > > > > > > > 1. Wives are to submit to the husband as the church submits to > > christ. This > > > > > negates any abuse or mistreatment, as christ does not abuse or > > mistreat the > > > > > church. > > > > > > > > > > 2. This plan, in point 1, only works if men are following God's > plan > > which > > > > > tells them to "love your wives as your own flesh" which not only > > negates any > > > > > mistreatment, but encourages a loving and affectionate attitude. > > > > > > > > > > 3. Most baptist women I know, including my wife, are more than > > willing to > > > > > speak their opinions to anyone be it their husband, pastor, > whatever. > > > > > > > > > > I submit that your posting is based on your personal hate for > baptist > > and > > > > > possibly for christianity in general rather than on any actual > facts. > > > > > > > > > > -----== Posted via Deja News, The Leader in Internet Discussion ==----- > > > http://www.dejanews.com/rg_mkgrp.xp Create Your Own Free Member Forum > > > > > >
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: 101eb4,a9f46702710f692e X-Google-Attributes: gid101eb4,public X-Google-Thread: fa15f,a9f46702710f692e X-Google-Attributes: gidfa15f,public X-Google-Thread: 103916,a9f46702710f692e X-Google-Attributes: gid103916,public X-Google-Thread: 10fa57,a9f46702710f692e X-Google-Attributes: gid10fa57,public From: <Jamesg@msn.com> Subject: Re: Children To Be Scapegoated? Date: 1998/07/23 Message-ID: <01bdb64b$b7bf1e40$d25333a1@nt3128> X-Deja-AN: 374217008 References: <35AA7B5F.49CB@flash.net> <6oftaq$nbt$1@nnrp1.dejanews.com><35ABE2AB.7B97@flas h.net> <6oj3rk$rjh$1@nnrp1.dejanews.com> <01bdb5bb$157b5d00$d25333a1@nt3128> <01bdb64a$c0469c10$165033a1@nt3103> Newsgroups: tx.general,ok.general,fl.general,ga.general