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Re: Children To Be Scapegoated?

#3813
From: Jamesg
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1998 00:00
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I agree with that.  The shunning disney thing is a bit weird.

Jimmy Shaskivich <shaskivich@hotmail.com> wrote in article
<01bdb64a$c0469c10$165033a1@nt3103>...
> I missed the initial message which prompted these replies, but IMHO, the
> SBC has been issuing some real "weird" statements lately.  Shunning
Disney,
> banning Miramax films, etc..........seems so trivial and farcical to
begin
> with<>
> 
> Jamesg@msn.com wrote in article <01bdb5bb$157b5d00$d25333a1@nt3128>...
> > I am not a Baptist.  I am a Catholic.  This guys criticism of the
Baptist
> > statement is completely off target.  Not only do I think he doesn't
> > understand the teaching of the Baptist church on this subject, but he
> > doesn't understand the Christian concept of marriage.  Speaking of
power,
> > who gets their way, etc. all implies a pride and willfulness that would
> be
> > completely alien to a truly loving, Christian marriage.  I congratulate
> my
> > Baptist brethren for their courageous teaching.  It is certainly
counter
> > cultural in the present social climate, as are most of Christ's
> teachings.
> > 
> > easttom@redriverok.com wrote in article
> > <6oj3rk$rjh$1@nnrp1.dejanews.com>...
> > > Sir, all of your complaints have nothing to do with SBC doctrine or
> > > statements.  There is no statement or doctrine advocating any
> > mistreatment of
> > > any member of any family.
> > > 
> > > In article <35ABE2AB.7B97@flash.net>,
> > >   chmills@flash.net wrote:
> > > > C.S. Mills writes:
> > > > --I submit you simply have not paid attention to exactly what I
> wrote.
> > > > Please go back and read my post again.
> > > > --Children IN ALREADY DYSFUNCTIONAL BAPTIST FAMILIES are in a
> position
> > > > to be scapegoated now more than ever by those particular Baptist
> > > > families. Did you take my first statement to mean that ALL Southern
> > > > Baptist families are dysfunctional? Would you agree that SOME
> Southern
> > > > Baptist families are dysfunctional? Would you agree that SOME
> Southern
> > > > Baptist children who reside in dysfuncitonal families might be
> > > > scapegoated in those families who focus on only part of the
addition
> to
> > > > the Baptist Faith And Message.
> > > > --The complexities  of this  specific type of family needs to be
> taken
> > > > into account by the well-meaning Southern Baptists who devised the
> > > > newest point in the BF&M.
> > > > --Additionally, Southern Baptists need to recognize that many
> children
> > > > ARE utilized  daily by one parent  as a sounding board on gripes
> > > > against the other parent during those numerous
> > > > less-than-perfectly-Christian family moments, and that they
> frequently
> > > > are scapegoated by parents - even good Southern Baptist parents.
> > > > Chronically using a child that way is hurtful to the child. And
THAT
> > was
> > > > my chief point of concern in my post.
> > > > --I am sorry that you feel my criticism of the Baptist Faith And
> > Message
> > > > means that I hate all Baptists and that I hate all Christians.
> > > >
> > > > C.S. Mills
> > > > chmills@flash.net
> > > > ________________
> > > > easttom@redriverok.com wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > I suggest that you have simply not paid attention to the actual
SBC
> > > statement.
> > > > >
> > > > > 1. Wives are to submit to the husband as the church submits to
> > christ.  This
> > > > > negates any abuse or mistreatment, as christ does not abuse or
> > mistreat the
> > > > > church.
> > > > >
> > > > > 2. This plan, in point 1, only works if men are following God's
> plan
> > which
> > > > > tells them to "love your wives as your own flesh" which not only
> > negates any
> > > > > mistreatment, but encourages a loving and affectionate attitude.
> > > > >
> > > > > 3.  Most baptist women I know, including my wife, are more than
> > willing to
> > > > > speak their opinions to anyone be it their husband, pastor,
> whatever.
> > > > >
> > > > > I submit that your posting is based on your personal hate for
> baptist
> > and
> > > > > possibly for christianity in general rather than on any actual
> facts.
> > > >
> > > 
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From: <Jamesg@msn.com>
Subject: Re: Children To Be Scapegoated?
Date: 1998/07/23
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