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Article #921Re: Seeking Advice
From: Michael Malak
Date: Mon, 15 Nov 1999 00:00
Date: Mon, 15 Nov 1999 00:00
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Newsgroups changed: dc.romance added, rec.arts.movies.current-films dropped Posted and cc:'d. In article <382F72A2.6C4A2193@yahoo.com>, DonLi@yahoo.com wrote: > But I'm not going to settle for anyone conveniently > comes along. City paper ad? The cold fact is that a lot of white men and asian women pair up, so that makes it more difficult for asian men to find women. It just means you have to try harder, and be patient. Trying harder means fanning a large net: * City Paper ads * Internet/Web ads * dc.romance discussion/ads * Going to lots of parties * Holding parties * Going to discussion groups * Holding discussion groups * Joining recreational groups (esp. sports women enjoy, such as rollerblading, volleyball, tennis, etc.) * Participating in community theatre * Taking adult education classes (county, community college, art school, dance school, etc.) * More In other words, expand your social net as wide as possible, and you will find someone with whom there is mutual attraction. In the course of doing this exercise, you will be at the same time improving yourself and growing personally, thereby increasing your overall attractiveness and increasing your odds. This will require a commitment of several hours per day every day for several years. This means working no more than 40 hours per week, and cutting your commute by living close to your job, in order that you can participate in social activities every night of the week. -- Michael Malak malak@claygency.com Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/ Before you buy.
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: f4c9a,ad910f0439b48d9a,start X-Google-Attributes: gidf4c9a,public X-Google-Thread: 101049,b2bccfc112aca732 X-Google-Attributes: gid101049,public X-Google-Thread: fb785,525d111db75085c3 X-Google-Attributes: gidfb785,public From: Michael Malak <malak@claygency.com> Subject: Re: Seeking Advice Date: 1999/11/15 Message-ID: <80o45m$bnh$1@nnrp1.deja.com> X-Deja-AN: 548689311 References: <7vr6tl$lrn$1@nnrp03.primenet.com> <805ori$l3p$2@nntp6.atl.mindspring.net> <382765ad.348986392@news.mindspring.com> <80ccdf$16r7@drn.newsguy.com> <MPG.12989419fc62eddf9896c6@news-server> <382F72A2.6C4A2193@yahoo.com> To: DonLi@yahoo.com X-Http-User-Agent: Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 4.01; Windows NT) X-Http-Proxy: 1.1 x29.deja.com:80 (Squid/1.1.22) for client 207.176.4.197 Organization: Deja.com - Before you buy. X-Article-Creation-Date: Mon Nov 15 05:02:47 1999 GMT X-MyDeja-Info: XMYDJUIDmichaelmalak Newsgroups: va.general,dc.general,dc.romance