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Re: Seeking Advice

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From: Michael Malak
Date: Mon, 15 Nov 1999 00:00
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In article <382F72A2.6C4A2193@yahoo.com>,
  DonLi@yahoo.com wrote:
>  But I'm not going to settle for anyone conveniently
> comes along.  City paper ad?

The cold fact is that a lot of white men and asian women pair up,
so that makes it more difficult for asian men to find women.  It
just means you have to try harder, and be patient.  Trying harder
means fanning a large net:

* City Paper ads
* Internet/Web ads
* dc.romance discussion/ads
* Going to lots of parties
* Holding parties
* Going to discussion groups
* Holding discussion groups
* Joining recreational groups (esp. sports women enjoy, such as
  rollerblading, volleyball, tennis, etc.)
* Participating in community theatre
* Taking adult education classes (county, community college, art
  school, dance school, etc.)
* More

In other words, expand your social net as wide as possible, and you
will find someone with whom there is mutual attraction.  In the
course of doing this exercise, you will be at the same time
improving yourself and growing personally, thereby increasing your
overall attractiveness and increasing your odds.

This will require a commitment of several hours per day every day
for several years.  This means working no more than 40 hours per
week, and cutting your commute by living close to your job, in
order that you can participate in social activities every night of
the week.

--
Michael Malak
malak@claygency.com


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From: Michael Malak <malak@claygency.com>
Subject: Re: Seeking Advice
Date: 1999/11/15
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