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In article <ZD9P4B1w165w@oneb2.almanac.bc.ca> lisa@oneb2.almanac.bc.ca writes:
>yasu@ll.mit.edu (Alan Yasutovich) writes:
>> 	In case you missed my story, I didn't see either of them
>> 	for 10 years.  Then, 7 years into my next marriage
>> 	and one new baby, they barge in.  THis, after being
>> 	shunned, told to take a walk, and leave them alone.
>> 
>> 	this kid doesn't even go by his real last name; MINE.
>> 
>> 	And he wants "birthrights"?
>> 
>Alan,
>
>I think it very sad that you apparently hold your own child son responsible
>for his mother's actions/decisions.  Her influence seems apparent and thus your
>son continues to be victimized by both her bitterness and your own.



	I agree.


>> 	That's why the "cash-cow" thing.  Maybe I'm coming
>> 	from a different direction.  But things/people STILL
>> 	pop out from the woodwork.
>> 
>> 	Don't people have a right to know exactly what is
>> 	expected from them so they can plan accordingly?
>
>As you well know, our children see their father at least every two weeks and
>when possible, more often than that.  No one is "popping out of the woodwork"
>here.  In fact, it was my ex who initiated our current court proceedings!
>Mark makes an astute observation in pointing out the inequities of a
>custodial parent having to be 100% financially responsible for their
>children after divorce...only difference is, my ex didn't walk away from his
>kids, only from his parental responsibilities for them.
>
>Anyway, as my dear father has pointed out, your comments in this thread have
>nothing to do with the FMEP (in my case, at least) nor with anything related
>to my original post.  I didn't ask my ex for copies of those garnisheed
>chequestubs -- I didn't even know they existed!  I did ask the FMEP about them
>(once my ex's attorney presented them to me) and subsequently, about when
>those funds were returned, which they refused to divulge.
>
>Jeesh!
>
>---
>Lisa Lambeth                             lisa@oneb2.almanac.bc.ca
>Nanaimo, B.C.
>Canada                                   NEXT?


	I agree again.


	(Off goes Lisa to have a coronary)
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	Alan Yasutovich
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