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Article #208Re: Guys Who Describe Themselves As "Woman's Rights Champions"
From: Tom Wells
Date: Mon, 20 May 1996 00:00
Date: Mon, 20 May 1996 00:00
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Tony Bruno wrote: > [snipped] > When my wife graduated from college in 1993, we decided to chance a move > to the Denver Metro area in order to improve our long-term economic > position. It was a tough decision; I opted to hold off on my last year > of college in order to make the move, as my wife was literally being > offered only retail jobs in Grand Forks. We did the headhunter thing, > and -- unlike a surprising number of our peers -- hit the bricks to make > opportunities for ourselves. After three months of hard searching, the > *only* offer she got (after the only interview she received, mind you) > was that of a receptionist at an electronic components supply company. > She was placed in charge of the computer equipment, handled phones, and > made a whopping $8.50/hour to start. Eventually, she made $9.60/hour, > but was passed over for promotions twice in favor of people with half > I tell this story because we were both stunned by the entire experience. > I was raised by three older sisters, so the concept of treating women > as anything other than competent human beings was (and is) beyond me. > While I was in the military, my wife was treated with nothing short of > the respect that should be expected by anyone. Instead, we found the > Denver Metro area to be, by and large, a "Penis-Only" club, with the > women that were making it catering to the market by dressing > ridiculously. (Thigh-high slit skirts in a business meeting? Please.) > Sexism, we discovered, does exist, and does not appear to be going away. > It horrifies me, it disgusts me, and it makes me shudder at the state > of humanity. I am not after the "one thing" that the previous poster > implied, and do not tolerate any such treatment in my presence. In the > year we have to seek out better economic opportunities I can only hope > that we will find a location that offers interviews based on > skills and not bust-size. We're both tired of a business environment > where the chances of my wife being hired are directly proportionaly to > how high her skirt is. > > Tony Bruno Given that this topic is Bay Area-oriented, I really believe that both of you would benefit, socially and career-wise, in investigating the opportunities here in the Bay Area. While the sexism and other social evils exist here as they do elsewhere, I really believe the area is a lot more encouraging of all persons who are motivated and have something to offer beyond their sex appeal. Especially for people who have both a traditional as well as a technical background! If you need/want to have the names of a few companies that can't seem to find enough quality people, just holler. Tom -- ========================================================================= Tom Wells Business: tlwd@pge.com Peronal: twells@best.com ==========================================================================
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X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: fdc4a,c64c2eda714a618d X-Google-Attributes: gidfdc4a,public X-Google-Thread: 106b5d,c64c2eda714a618d X-Google-Attributes: gid106b5d,public X-Google-Thread: fbd31,c64c2eda714a618d X-Google-Attributes: gidfbd31,public X-Google-Thread: 10a1d2,c64c2eda714a618d X-Google-Attributes: gid10a1d2,public X-Google-Thread: 1082f5,c64c2eda714a618d X-Google-Attributes: gid1082f5,public X-Google-Thread: 110235,c64c2eda714a618d X-Google-Attributes: gid110235,public From: Tom Wells <twells@best.com> Subject: Re: Guys Who Describe Themselves As "Woman's Rights Champions" Date: 1996/05/20 Message-ID: <31A15656.1837C12C@best.com> X-Deja-AN: 155875860 references: <4nlph9$gom@ccnet3.ccnet.com> <4nm91k$qaa@newsbf02.news.aol.com> <31A08DA8.536B@blizzard.gaffaneys.com> to: Tony Bruno <tbruno@blizzard.gaffaneys.com> content-type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii organization: snivelling weasel inc. mime-version: 1.0 newsgroups: ne.singles,soc.women,soc.men,ba.singles,soc.couples,rec.org.mensa x-mailer: Mozilla 2.0 (X11; I; Linux 1.3.48 i586)