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jcooley@world.std.com (John Cooley) writes:
 
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.John Cooley <jcooley@world.std.com. wrote:
..I think that *some* women genuinely have these urges while
..*some* other women genuiely don't (or they lose them over time.)  I can't
..tell you the number of women I've seen in their 40's who publically espoused
..how happy they are to be celebate.  (These were/are friends; not women I was
..making a pass at.)  In the "Dear Ann Landers" column I've read
..multiple times about older women not wanting to have sex but just wanting
..to cuddle with their mates.  (Many espoused giving up sex altogether.)
.
.Before I get flames galore for saying what I said, let me refer you to today's
.Ann Lander's column where some poor guy has been married to a woman who
.told him to go elsewhere for sex and hasn't gone to bed with him for 9 years.
.The guy was bummed because he's the monogamous type and felt he wasn't good
.enough looking to have a wife approved affair.
.
.Two weeks ago on Saturday there was an Ann Landers column where a wife wrote
.that hubby was caring, supportive, great in every way *except* he got grumpy
.if they didn't have sex at least 3 times a week (which wifey thought was a
.chore.)
.
.In both situations, from the male perspective, this was/is a nightmare!  I
.mean with all the media's hustling of wife/child abuse, horrible divorces
.and such; even when the guy's good there's still a good chance he can
.still lose.  I find the prospect of many people's elusive search for
.personal happiness very depressing.  There's just too much working against
.anyone achieving or keeping it.
.
 
  How sad. But not surprising when you consider that your positions are
  supported by Ann Landers' newspaper column.
 
Bill Edison
 
 
.  - John
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